MEM assists in all areas of life including work, home, love & relationships. It is effective with depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse, addictions and learning difficulties. MEM clears anything holding you back from feeling good.

Love & Relationships

The whole of life revolves around relationships, which is why many Mace Energy Method practitioners consider that the most important aspect of the research is Relationship Repair, for it invariably produces astounding and far-reaching results. Although relationships can produce the greatest happiness, when they go wrong they can be just as devastating, which is why their repair is so important.

A person can choose to react or respond to others.

Reacting tends to be irrational and general makes things worse. Responding is rational whereby the person is in control of themselves, composed and is their ‘true self’.

A response comes from the real person, where as a reaction comes from a negative identity.

The Mace Method assists in a person’s ability to respond (response-able) in their relationships from their true-self.

You can't change anybody else – you can change how you are at the effect of them.


Depression is arguably the single most common malady affecting society today. It affects young and old, rich and poor, blue-collar workers and white-collar workers, labourers and executives. Colour or creed is no barrier either; all are depression’s potential victims.

In medicine, Depression has various classifications that are given specific names, such as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Post Natal Depression, plus other terms such as, Manic Depression and a term not so common today, Nervous Breakdown. Manic Depression refers to a sufferer who alternates between very high moods and equally low moods. Depression in all its guises does not have a physical component, so can only be emotional complaint. The first two mentioned types of depression take their names from the apparent source of the depression, particularly the second, but the essence of the complaint is the same, the victim is depressed.

The chronic depression sufferer experiences any and every type of emotion and attitude to life that is negative. Anxiety, despondency and irrational fears prevail, which vary in degree and form from case to case.

The term Post Natal Depression, in offering a specific cause implies that it is a special kind of depression; it is different to any other form of depression, but this is not true. Depression is depression is depression! The term Post Traumatic Stress Disorder in acknowledging that it is depression, implies that it is a unique form of depression caused by trauma, this is also untrue as trauma is the only cause of depression. Whether the trauma was major or minor, is in the eyes of the victim.

For this reason, no dictionary can define when an upsetting event becomes a trauma; the dictionaries just refer to it as an event having dramatic negative emotional effects. Emotional trauma varies in intensity from case to case.
Interestingly, every physical trauma, say a broken leg, has a corresponding emotional trauma. The physician can set the broken limb, but the emotional trauma remains. The depth of the emotional trauma governs the longevity of the healing process; removing the emotional aspect expedites the healing.

What is traumatic for one is a minor inconsequential inconvenience for another. This does not negate the fact that some experiences are majorly distressing, but whether major or minor, without exception they all fall within the Mace Method’s definition of an upset. This is defined as “any event that a person would not experience by choice” and this definition is the corner stone of the procedure.

It does not matter what happened in an upset or what the effects were that were generated, the Mace Method rapidly and permanently, totally eliminates all negative effects, in other words it permanently banishes depression no matter how it is dramatised.


Physical abuse leaves marks for all to see, but emotional abuse does not. The old saying, “Time heals all things” may be true as far as physical scars go, but definitely not for emotional scars. Emotional scars stay buried in the psyche, out of sight and a constant hidden source of numerous emotional problems.

Some emotional abuse is quite subtle, for instance voiced criticism and irrational control; “Don’t do that”, “Stop doing that!” or “You’ll never amount to anything!” These are abuse of one’s own self-determinism and self esteem that leaves emotional scars. The most devastating form of abuse is sexual, especially rape as it involves both emotional and physical violation of the very core of one’s nature.

Abuse is simply anything that is forced on to a person that they don't want - be it physical, sexual or verbal.

The consequences of abuse are varied, but for all, life is never the same again for the abused person. Their view of the world changes, they never feel quite right again. There are many negative consequences including relationship problems, low self esteem, lack of confidence, feeling different, phobias, compulsive behaviour, addictions, unwanted emotions of anger, fear hate etc.

In fact any negative feelings or thoughts concerning yourself have their roots in 'Negative Identities' and can be eliminated permanently.

Abuse by its very nature is a trauma. The Mace Energy Method addresses the trauma/upset without talking about the actual details of what happened, only how it made the recipient feel. It uncovers the negative decisions made about oneself and the negative consequences disappear.


Learning Difficulties

People are not immune to disappointments and losses during the learning process and these are the source of unknowingly created negative identities.

Experience in the Mace Method academy has found that behind all learning difficulties lay negative identities, many of which emanate from primary school and invariably get triggered as soon as a person has to learn something new. “I’m not clever enough” or “I’m a failure” are from case histories, which surfaced in the academy along with “I’ll never learn that”. Obviously they also adversely affect self esteem.

Negative identities inhibit a person’s ability to absorb information, so imagine what would happen to individuals and the education system as a whole, if every one, as well as children, was to be unburdened of their study


A surrogate is a substitute or deputy. The term surrogacy has become known predominantly because of women who carry some other woman’s child after a fertilised ovum has been inserted in their womb.

The new MEM procedure allows a surrogate to help others who are unable to have a session in their own right. Examples are children who are too young to have a session; emotionally handicapped individuals who are commonly,
but erroneously referred to as Mentally Handicapped and people who are unable to talk.

This procedure, the brain child of Martina Becher, a German psychologist and qualified MEM practitioner was successfully used to treat her horse. Other practitioners also successfully treated animals with behavioural problems, so the obvious step was to use it on people. It is now an established procedure in the hands of an advanced qualified MEM practitioner.

Surrogacy is a telepathic procedure that fits under the umbrella of MEM, because both utilise the laws of energy and not the laws of the material world.

This is a comparatively new development and many areas have yet to be explored, for instance Autism and Attention Deficient Syndrome.